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曾国藩的「八交九不交」-在「公共场合」见到漂亮的「陌生」女孩,怎样能够「成功」地让她愿意和你约会?

发布时间:2017-08-16 所属栏目:李敢

一 : 在「公共场合」见到漂亮的「陌生」女孩,怎样能够「成功」地让她愿意和你约会?


网友蒙面大侠[心和你约会]在「公共场合」见到漂亮的「陌生」女孩,怎样能够「成功」地让她愿意和你约会?给出的答复:
上个礼拜天下午偶然遇见一个很心动的女孩子,鼓起勇气去追上去要到了电话号码。
昨天和今天约出来一块吃饭,已成功牵到小手……
如果一个礼拜之后她能成为我的女朋友,再来更新细节。

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一个礼拜时间到了,她已经是我女朋友了……

其实在我写下这个答案的第二天晚上十点半,她已经答应做我女朋友了。
从看到她到现在两个礼拜,在一起一个礼拜。
这几天,我一直在想,要不要把这个事情写出来……
虽然是一件美好的事情,但是我还是觉得这是我们两个人之间的美好记忆。
想了想。还是说说在遇到她以及追到她我自己的心路历程吧。

我是在校大学生,我女朋友是我对面学校的。

首先,我们的相遇很意外,5月19号的下午,我帮舍友去取快递,走错,去了另一个送快递的地方,刚好碰到她也取快递,很心动。
于是我迅速拿出手机,在便签上写到:“同学,看到你我特别心动,能不能把电话号码写在这里?”
写完这个后,她已经走出了好远,我还是没有勇气追上去。(之前从来没有主动去要过陌生异性的电话)
直到看到她走进她们学校,感觉内心特别失落,突然想到,或许因为自己的一次不勇敢,就会错过一段美好的爱情。于是,我没有再犹豫,狂奔进他们学校,叫住她,磕磕绊绊地表达了我的意思,真的是结巴的不像样子……好在,要到了她的联系方式。耶!

其实,我能有这样的勇气,还是要感谢@李淼 大哥的这个回答 陌生人的哪些事,让你感触很深?

这个小故事结尾我特别喜欢:“爱情突如其来,莫名其妙,我们唯一所要做的就是,放下矜持……”

然后,要到电话了,那肯定是趁热打铁。刚开始,她有一定的戒备心,这是人之常情。 我发两三条三四条信息,她往往只是礼貌性的回复,或者不回。
这个时候,聊天内容就很重要了,我没有问那些你多大呀,什么专业呀,家是哪里呀这样子一问一答没有多大延伸空间又很老套的问题。
女孩子都有好奇心,我在聊天中尽量激发她的好奇心,在满足她的好奇心的同时偶尔开开玩笑,然后再把自己对一些事情的看法加进去。总之,让她觉得我不是一个无趣的人。

我俩聊了六天之后,到礼拜五,约到她出来吃饭。成功牵到小手!
哦耶!
我认为,如果渴望让一个女孩成为女朋友的话,在从陌生到熟悉的过程中一定要有肢体接触!肢体接触可以迅速拉近两个人的内心距离!
当然行为一定要磊落坦荡,不要猥猥琐琐,真情的流露对方一定可以感受得到。

现在我回过头想想,整个过程我都很真诚,这可能也算是打动她的一个方面吧。
其实,如果你对一个女孩子足够动心,足够渴望和她相知相爱。
那么,一定会找到方法的。

现在我两在一块很开心,每次想起她,内心都觉得无比柔软……
生活中有了爱情的滋润,感觉整个世界都明亮了许多……
我也很庆幸当时的勇敢,接下来的日子,我一定会好好爱她……


网友ump G[心和你约会]在「公共场合」见到漂亮的「陌生」女孩,怎样能够「成功」地让她愿意和你约会?给出的答复:
其实越漂亮的MM越容易被有自信的男生吸引,自然大方的介绍自己就可以了。我有追求的自由,你有拒绝的自由。身边大把死要面子的怯懦宅男,唉。。。


网友Inaxu[心和你约会]在「公共场合」见到漂亮的「陌生」女孩,怎样能够「成功」地让她愿意和你约会?给出的答复:

二 : 中国电影界的「监制」,和美国电影界的「line producer(电影线


网友yolfilm[电影界]中国电影界的「监制」,和美国电影界的「line producer(电影线上制片)」有什么区别?给出的答复:
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一、
在中國,監製名頭,通常是給官員,或是掛名的明星導演,(包括像焦雄屏這種,在外國影展有影響力的影評人等),爽一下用的。

掛監製,也許於官場有用,也許於影展能加分,也許宣傳時會多一個亮點。

一般,也就是如此了。

二、
line producer,網上翻成白目的「線上製片」,真的不好。

(我一般翻成「製片經理」。意譯。或是「控管製片」。)
(台灣圈內接近的名詞是「執行製作」,以與所謂的「執行製片」作出分別。)

一般來說,製片分成三種。

談生意的,是一種。
定策劃、拍板創意的,是一種。
搞生產的,是一種。

(詳細的職能分配,這邊有文件,美國製片人協會官網,可找到正式定義:http://www.61k.com?page=faq)

line producer,就是最後一種「搞生產」的,他們不管錢從哪來?創意誰定?這些都與他無關。
他只管把片子,按劇本、分鏡、故事板等實際計劃、根據時間表、在預算內完成。
其實就是個「懂行」的「電影圈經理」。

因為懂行,所以能預知「哪兒會出問題」「哪兒有貓膩」「出了問題,得怎麼解決?」……。

這種人,表面上權利不大,其實是電影出錢老板的真正心腹,把他惹火了,導演都能被開除。


以下,是http://www.61k.com?page=faq的截引:
What does a Producer do?
A Producer initiates, coordinates, supervises and controls, either on his own authority, or subject to the authority of an employer, all aspects of the motion-picture and/or television production process, including creative, financial, technological and administrative. A Producer is involved throughout all phases of production from inception to completion, including coordination, supervision and control of all other talents and crafts, subject to the provisions of their collective bargaining agreements and personal service contracts.

What does an Executive Producer do?
An Executive Producer supervises, either on his own authority (entrepreneur executive producer) or subject to the authority of an employer (employee executive producer) one or more producers in the performance of all of his/her/their producer functions on single or multiple productions. In television, an Executive Producer may also be the Creator/Writer of a series.

What does an Associate Producer do?
An Associate Producer performs one or more producer functions delegated to him/her by a producer, under the supervision of such producer.

What does a Co-Producer do?
Co-Producers are two or more functioning producers who perform jointly or cumulatively all of the producer functions as a team or group.

What does a Supervising Producer do?
A Supervising Producer supervises one or more producers in the performance of some or all of his/her/their producer functions, on single or multiple productions, either in place of, or subject to the overriding authority of an Executive Producer.

What does a Segment Producer do?
A Segment Producer produces one or more individual segments of a multi-segment production, also containing individual segments produced by others.

What does a Coordinating Producer do?
A Coordinating Producer coordinates the work of two or more individual producers working separately on single or multiple productions in order to achieve a unified end result.

What does a Line Producer do?
A Line Producer performs the Producer functions involved in supervising the physical aspects of the making of a motion picture or television production where the creative decision-making process is reserved to others, except to such extent as the Line Producer is permitted to participate. Unit Production Managers, who perform no more than the customary services of a Unit Production Manager should be credited only as such.

Do I have to join the PGA to be employed as a Producer?
No. We are a professional association, not a union.

What are the fees involved in becoming a PGA member?

* Application Fee is non-refundable.
** Minimum Payment Option - Initiation fee will be paid in three (3) equal installments over a period not to exceed two (2) years. First payment includes: non-refundable application fee, initiation fee (1st installment), ? annual dues.

Does the PGA have a Health & Welfare and Pension Plan?
The employer paid plan: Members working for AMPTP-member companies either directly or as a loan-out, in theatrical motion pictures or prime time network television are entitled to contributions to the Motion Picture Industry Pension and Health Plan. The PGA also offers discounted self-pay plans to members who do not qualify for employer-paid coverage. While access is not guaranteed, most members will qualify for coverage, and for rates better than are found on the open market.

What other benefits are offered by the PGA to its members?
In addition to being able to network with an elite mixture of peers, other benefits of joining the Producers Guild of America are that your PGA membership card entitles you to view special screenings of motion pictures at Academy Award time; access to the Interguild Federal Credit Union; invitation to the Annual Producers Guild Awards; participation in the Board of Directors elections; and eligibility to serve on various PGA Committees. Participation in Producer/Educational seminars and regular meetings are also offered.

Other benefits to joining the Producers Guild include access to the PGA’s pre-release screening program, as well as copies of DVD "screeners” for awards consideration; eligibility for employer-paid and self-pay health coverage; access to the PGA Job Board and Job Forums; discounted registration for the annual Produced By Conference and Producers Guild Awards; free access to the many Guild seminars and workshops offered throughout the year; subscription to the quarterly Produced By magazine and The Networker newsletter. For more benefits, click here.

Are there established pay rates or minimums for Producers?
The PGA does not have an industry-wide Minimum Basic Agreement at this time, so pay rates are subject to negotiation in one's Personal Service Contract.

Does the PGA read scripts and assist in securing financing and making deals?
No, the PGA does not become directly involved in individual production ventures.

Does the PGA assist in securing employment?
PGA members gain exclusive access to the many listings available on this website’s Job Board. However, the PGA does not act as an agent for the purposes of securing employment.-

三 : 圣母是欧洲危机的「最大希望之源」

圣母是欧洲危机的「最大希望之源」

圣母是欧洲危机的「最大希望之源」

教廷礼仪圣事部部长安多尼·卡尼萨雷斯〔网上图片〕

  教廷礼仪圣事部部长安多尼·卡尼萨雷斯(AntonioCanizares)枢机,在西班牙瓦伦西亚的传统「儿童弥撒」中说,圣母玛利亚是目前面临经济危机的西班牙与欧洲大部分国家的「最大希望之源」。

  五月十五日在童贞圣母广场上的露天弥撒,是为敬礼「被遗弃儿童之母」而举行的大典礼,每年有很多个儿童合唱团参与。

  卡尼萨雷斯枢机在讲道中说:「当我们在生活中遇到困难,处于最艰难境地的时候,正如社会正面临历史上的『关键时刻』,[www.61k.com)将这一切都奉献给圣母尤为重要。」

  这位西班牙籍枢机续说,国家面临最大危机,以及人类面对的真正问题,根源在于人离开天主而导致人性败坏及缺乏真正远景。

  他引述教宗本笃十六世的话说:「若没有天主,人类无法变得伟大,会失去尊严,成为盲目发展的产品,且被利用和滥用。唯有在天主内,并与那无条件爱人的天主同在,一如我们从圣母中感觉到的,才会使地球的需要发生变化。」

  枢机的讲道赢得数千参礼者持续不断的掌声。

  弥撒结束时,瓦伦西亚总主教嘉禄.奥索罗(CarlosOsoro)向枢机致谢,并请他向教宗转达「瓦伦西亚天主教会所有基督徒真诚的感情、共融及祈祷」。

【完】来源:《Catholic NewsAgency》,天亚社编译。

Virgin Mary ‘greatestsource of hope’ for Europe’s crisis

原文连结:http://alturl.com/hhqk5

四 : 怎么评价雕爷和「万能的大熊」的争执?

[李敢]怎么评价雕爷和「万能的大熊」的争执?
万能的大熊出来这篇文章 起底雕爷61阅读思维“把一个东西做到极致”显然相悖了。再退一步,即便有心把雕爷牛腩做到极致,互联网上高举高打做营销,关心互联网领域的人都听得不想再听了的品牌,在普通大众里面认知度未必也行。就像永和大王,做了90家店,依然有很多城市因认知度不行,经营不佳、站不住脚。永和大王开第一家店是20年前的事了,20年后的今天,餐饮业的多样性增加了多少,大家可以凭自己的生活常识来判断一下,雕爷牛腩面的替代品有多少、复制开店的难度增加了多少、成功的难度增加了多少。餐饮业靠连锁实现高增长,从而带来高倍PE,太难了,这和真正高增长的互联网项目是不能相提并论的。

这里有个词是“成功”,雕爷牛腩做到什么程度算成功?想起前几天牛文文在北大的演讲中提到创业者分为天派和地派。天派是马云类型的,代表了华尔街资本主义的模式,希望5年有回报,轰轰烈烈地生,轰轰烈烈地死,有大梦想,创造一个新需求、不怕亏损。地派像俏江南的张兰类型的,代表了日本、德国工商国家的模式,世世代代想把某个东西做好,一般不想着上市或者十几年比较长的时间上市。大熊的结论“远离互联网,远离投资圈,远离喧嚣,慢慢做价值,慢慢收获。”可能适合绝大多数的地派公司。多数人都有颗地派的心,所以不少人看到大熊的观点会有些共鸣。天派的人,少见,就算雕爷是天派,那么如何真正轰轰烈烈地生,是很值得探究的东西。我等地派,暂时想不到如何轰轰烈烈,只能仰望天派那些轰轰烈烈如何蔓延,特别是在餐饮界。


网友韩立春[李敢]怎么评价雕爷和「万能的大熊」的争执?给出的答复:

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